"Honey in this day and age, why would you want to slave away in the kitchen? Take it out of the box, put it in the microwave and stick a fork in it when it's done."
That doesn't sound very appetizing now does it?
I've been mocked for cooking from scratch. Oh, yeah. By a feminist who curled her lip at me and proudly proclaimed to everyone, "I don't cook. Cooking is a form of modern slavery."
Really?
Back in the dark days before the Internet, Direct TV, and iPhones there were three (other) basic everyday needs. Food, clothing, and shelter. No matter how advanced technology gets, we still have to eat! Everyone should learn how to cook at least a few meals, even if they're as simple as spaghetti and sauce. Being able to transform raw ingredients into a meal is not only a path to self-sufficiency but better overall health. Organic and conventional aside, taking whole foods and preparing them in your own kitchen means you have complete control of the method and the ingredients. I mean, have you looked at the ingredient list on a box of poptarts lately?
In my family, everyone cooks. My Dad, an avid outdoorsman, makes the best fried squirrel (no don't stop reading, it's really good!) and succotash and my Mom used to let my brother and I make animal shapes out of the rolled out dumpling dough. My brother is teaching his two girls the joy of cooking as well. My oldest niece won a third place ribbon at the 2013 Kentucky State Fair for her banana bread recipe and she's only 11! My Dad still thinks she would have won first place if only she had added the secret ingredient. Rum. (My Dad is from the old German school. Where the kids were given sips of beer as soon as they could walk and toddies of whiskey and lemon juice when they were sick.)
While my family wasn't wealthy, my Dad worked hard to provide for us and Mom always made sure we were fed a balanced meal. She always had meat or fish and several vegetables (one always green) and fruit. Rarely did we have dessert or bread with our meals. My relationship with food was always pretty healthy but it was when I started following the governments guidelines for healthy eating that the problems really began. As I got older I became more conscience of that "artery clogging saturated fat". I started eating boatloads of those recommended, "heart healthy whole grains". I never felt so awful in my life! After a few weeks eating grains at every meal and in between I started having headaches. They felt like borderline migraines and I felt famished and irritable all the time. I mean ALL the time, and I never really felt satisfied after eating.
After about six months later, I stubbled on a little book called
Paleo Diet for Athletes and the Weston A. Price website. At the time I was running 6-10 miles every other day training for mini-marathons and working out pretty hard. That book, while flawed, got me thinking. Honestly it changed my life. I went back to basics. Both philosophies spoke to me for different reasons. At least the whole grain debacle unmasked a problem I had been battling for years. Gluten intolerance. So I mashed the two philosophies together and called it Paleo Price.
I threw out that tub of Country Crock, the boxes of processed crap and rediscovered those great family recipes and traditional foods. I rendered lard from pastured pig fat and made pie crust with it. I fried my soaked potatoes in beef tallow. I popped my popcorn in coconut oil and I made homemade broth from chicken and beef bones. Maybe our grandmothers really did know a thing or two about cooking. The older the cookbook the better the flavor. That's a fact! I also noticed that my urge to snack was obliterated! Eating dense meals with meat, fat, and vegetables meant I could go a good five or six hours without even feeling hungry.
I think Americans have a hard time sitting down for the food. We can sit for video games and TV and movies, but how often do we sit down for the sake enjoying delicious food? How often do we sit with our families, share a meal and make interesting conversation? I'm old enough to remember when Dad yelled, "Supper", you best get your butt home and quick. Sitting down together for dinner was a requirement in my family. I think that is why the kitchen is such an important room to me. There were many lessons learned in the kitchen and not all are about food. It's really about love. The smell of bacon and bisquits still remind me of my Great-grandmothers kitchen. Where I was allowed to sit on the counter while the adults talked and play cook with bouillon cubes. I know that stuff tasted horrible but Grammy ate it. T
hat is love.
So last but not least, food should be a
pleasure not just a focus on nutrients or calories. Counting and weighing everything completely negates the
pleasure of eating a wonderful meal. Food
should be a
pleasure. Repeat this often. Not a bag of chips or Oreo cookies. That's short lived instant gratification. It's all about the difference between homemade with love and sticking a fork in the microwave dinner.
Making great food for the important people in your life...now that's love.